I’m behind, again . . . so I’ve combined the two together for today.
Write drunk and edit sober.
Allegedly Ernest Hemingway said (wrote?) this, although I didn’t bother to research it and confirm that, so I really don’t know.
Favorite drink for writing (#12)? My choice of beverage when writing is strictly water and that’s it – so I’m sober no matter what I’m writing. Drinking and or eating sometimes even music is just too distracting and having to manage drink (ice melted so now the drink is too warm, coffee has cooled so now it’s not drinkable), the snacks (crumbs across the keyboard, sticky fingers on the keys), even music at times interrupts the flow of words – um, Amazon Music I’m sure I didn’t choose that to listen to!
So just try and write and write only. I can carbo load while watching You Tube videos.
However, I think too, that one’s favorite beverage could parley into one’s Self-Care which is #12. I mean who doesn’t have a favorite choice of soda (Pepsi vs. Coke) or enjoys a glass of wine with friends (red or white) and having a relaxing leisure time is a form of Self-Care.
I sort of don’t like the term ‘Self-Care’ because it seems like when it’s brought up its always above and beyond the daily activities of taking care of oneself. It’s almost as if, when someone mentions ‘Self-Care’ I wonder if the assumption is that I am not doing any care at all?
For me ‘Self-Care’ is more like daily habits or reoccurring rituals. Of course, ‘Self-Care’ would be a good habit, not a bad one that we are trying to curb from our behavior.
I guess for me ‘Self-Care’ is just putting me first, recognizing my boundaries and enforcing my boundaries, if necessary, and really not worrying about what everyone else is doing.
‘Self-Care’ is taking time for myself mentally and physically, and more so recognizing my need to write and enjoying that favorite ‘adult beverage’ with family and friends.
Until next time,
Janna